As cynical as I know that I am, I also know that there are good men out here. The thing is, (and I can not for the life of me figure out why) women almost always look past them. I know I do. I (use to) look past the good guy at Mr. Felon or Mr. Cluster B, or Mr. I-don’t-want-a relationship (but I still think you should let me fuck you from time to time)… those kinds.
But the question is WHY? What is so attractive to us about these men? Maybe they are intriguing… where the Nice Guy, is just safe and almost boring? Or maybe we tend to look at a mans looks first, but consider his character flaws after it’s too late?
The first thing I tell my best friends when I am interested in a man is how fine he is. That’s ALWAYS first. And the bad ones are almost ALWAYS fine. *face-palm* Forget that he ain’t shit, he’s fine. How ridiculous, right?
Unfortunately sometimes it isn’t until you’ve had your heart totally crushed before you realize… character over physical. It’s not til you’re older to you start to think about a future and not temporary satiation of lust.
Anyway… I can imagine how discouraging it must be for the good men (and women) trying to maneuver in this dating game. I hope that no matter what comes you guys’ way that you don’t change who you are because you’re tired of being looked over.
We see you! We just stupid right now 😅